Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Where Did Mr. Wrong Go?

I was asked if I replaced my Mr. Wrong Wednesdays with a Mr. Right...much to the person asking the questions disappointment (as well as my mother's disappointment), the answer was a resounding no followed by some awkward laughter.  So the million dollar question--why have I stopped writing about Mr. Wrong?

1) I had a someone who I thought was a very possible Mr. Right, who turned out to be Mr. Mixed Signal/Mr. I like you but I don't want a relationship maybe you can wait for me...? This unfortunately did a number on me for 4 or so months until I realized I couldn't wait around for him to finally tell me I was enough...when I already was enough.

2) Then I had a Mr. Right Now who I tried to change into the ideal Mr. Right and I  just ended up getting annoyed by because he did turn into what I thought I wanted...and it turned out it wasn't at all what I wanted...and I'm sure I ended up doing a number on him.

3) Then I had another one, who at a different time and place may have been a Mr. Right...but as he informed me in a very hurtful and spiteful way I wasn't the Perfect Mrs. Right for him (although he gave me some suggestions to turn into that person).

So don't worry...I still have plenty of Mr. Wrong stories, moments, encounters, and so on.  I may be a week, a few weeks or even months before I post again.  For now, I need to process a few that may have hurt a little deeper than the ones I've shared with you...I suppose that is all part of growing up, huh?


1 comment:

  1. Aw, this makes me sad, but it sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders. I was with a #1 on and off for about 2 years---that can certainly do a number on you!